Understanding the Situation

Suffering In the SOCIETY:-

                                                   

We all are well informed about our society, our surroundings, and our responsibilities. The situation of lock-down is more dangerous than we expected. People are losing their patience and are taking those steps, which are not beneficial to anyone. Not only adults but children are also facing the same condition; they also have the pressure of studies, scoring good marks, being physically fit, etc., but the impact of these pressures on them is doubled-tripled due to lock-down. Students can't go outside to play with friends, which in turn converted this pressure into stress. Children don't talk about their issues with parents, and nowadays sharing between friends is also disappeared. They watch motivational videos, engage in social media, listen to songs, and feel positive, and after some time, the same condition again. Slowly this condition becomes harmful more than ever in the case of DEPRESSION. 

If you have to fight with depression or stress, the first thing to be done is understanding the problem, the second thing is sharing the problem, and the last thing is to make a correct conclusion. (We will talk about this in next section/post)

Your life is precious than anything else. Be positive. 

Every situation is not a problem, BUT every problem has a SOLUTION.  

Tackle the Situation

How to SOLVE:-

In the previous section, we talked about the problems of almost every person focusing on teenagers—the problem of DEPRESSION. We will try to solve this Step by Step by question method:-

Q- 1
What is the reason to take the stress ?

Think about your problem due to which you got stress. Does the problem was practical or just a negative thought? 

If it was only a thought or imaginary problem, then there is no reason to get worried. Don't think much of the future or past. Thinking about an adverse history will only provide you with sorrows and waste your precious present. Thinking much about the future is not necessary. You should only think about the future to set the target of your life after then work in the present to achieve it—no need to take the stress anymore.

Q- 2 
How to solve a practical problem?

If it is a real problem, then keep your mind stable and just follow the steps:-

1- Think about it - Half of the problems in life can be solved by thinking about it with a stable and calm mind. If you find the practical state of the problem, finding its solution will be easy. Try solving the problem as you are playing a level of an exciting thriller game in which you have the lead role. 

2- Try not to be YOU- A little bit complicated step, but it is constructive. Have you solved any problem of your friend? If yes, you will get the point that solving others' problems is more comfortable than solving ours. Imagine that your friend has the problem (that you have actually), he is asking you for a solution. It will be easier for you to solve the problem as it is not yours. When you get the answer, apply it to your situation. 

  

If you do not find your solution, then be patient. The next post will be your ANSWER...

The Final Step

Sharing the Issue:-

Guys, some times it is difficult for us to solve our life problem ourselves. Then this step comes in the attack. Consulting to your trustworthy and loving peoples will help you find the solutions for sure. 

Make sure that you do not go with those people whom you don't trust. Most conveniently talk to your parents, if you can't, then go to your friend who is wise and helping. He will listen to your problem and may give you the way to handle the situation. 

Sharing is the best way to feel relaxed and lighten up. Consult with your brothers/cousins, parents, friends, and teachers. They will make their views, and their opinions may be different. Here, at this step, think about everyone's answer and give a POSITIVE conclusion by yourself. In any condition, it is necessary to take an affirmative action which must not harm the feelings of your loved ones and society. 

If even at this step, you feel confused, then leave it to TIME don't take any decision in a hurry and worry. Trust on GOD, your work, and your luck. 

   "The best thing about a bad situation is that it never exists forever."

   

Never Give Up

Hey guys, have you ever felt that everything is going wrong in life or the things are not going according to you in life. You've prepared your best and still not getting good 'MARKS,' you've practiced a lot but unable to score a single run in a cricket match, you've given love and dedication to your work, to your family, to everyone who comes in your life but in return, you've got only hatred and FAILURE. What will you do now? Will you feel like you are failed in life and fall in depression or get stressed or be arrogant to everyone or commit SUICIDE?

Before making any decision, please read this blog, it will help you. It is a collection based on the views of successful persons and motivational speakers. 

Guys, every time you fail, it's painful and causes disappointment. You may give up because of ups and downs in life because you can't see any growth after so much hard work. But it is not the way to live. A person's strength is not identified when everything is in his favor but rather when he is in trouble. The bounce-back ability makes a person successful.  
You may have come across these ideas that I am going to share, but you never go in deep of these. Today you will get my conclusions also. Here is an analogy, read it:- 

 A man planted Fern and Bamboo seeds and took care of them very well. He made sure that both get the proper amount of required nutrients, light, and water. The man was delighted to see the ferns growing above the ground very quickly and covering its entire surroundings with its bright-green color. But he was very disappointed to see that nothing come out of the bamboo seeds. But he did not give up to bamboo; he took care of it continuously. Next year, the fern was great, but the bad thing was that bamboo seed had shown no progress, nothing came out. But the man did not quit, and he continued serving it. The third year, still nothing came out, but the dedication of man continued towards the bamboo. The fourth year, once again, he failed, but yet he did not leave it, he was taking care of it with the same enthusiasm as it was his first time. It was in the fifth year; he noticed some sprouts emerging from the earth; they were tiny as compared to ferns. But in the next six months, the Bamboo shot-up to over 100 feet tall.

The man realized that the bamboo spent those 5-years in growing its roots that made it strong and gave it all that is required to survive, thrive, and grow.

CONCLUSION- Guys, God gives problems to those who have the potential to handle it. When you are struggling with the issues, you are actually growing and making a strong base for your future growth. Like the man never gave up, never quit in your hard times. Give your body proper nutrients, your mind adequate knowledge, and your soul just peace and fight till your last breath. 

What if your marks are not good, try again and again, give your best every time, and get rewarded for your dedication and sustained efforts? 

Be happy when everything is going according to you, and when the situation is against, keep faith in GOD and your practice.   

Be like 'Abhimanyu' never quit.   

What is Dharma

Everyone here wants to be a good human being. How to be a 'good' person? Ask yourselves.

So if we define a right person then we can say that he is helpful, kind, generous, loving, the one who takes care of his family, never cheats, never steal, never hurt anyone, and follows the path of truth and 'DHARMA.'

All right, so I think you all are competent persons. But, hold on guys, do you ever wondered that, what DHARMA means? If you don't know what Dharma is, then you are not a good human being. Before we approach Dharma lets to explore 'Adharma.' 

You often do many such deeds which are considered adharma like arguing with parents, disrespecting your teachers, abusing some random person, fighting to your weaker ones, having an ego, etc. These all are 'Adharma.' If you are doing any of these things, then remember that you are doing adharma, and you will get this in return at one part of your life. 

It is now considering Dharma. First of all, Dharma is the same for every religion, every caste, and every person living in this world. Don't think Dharma to be a religious matter because it applies to every human being.

Your Dharma and your Karma are very identical to each other. Your responsibility towards the society, towards your family members, and yourself is known as your Karma. It would be best if you did not escape from your Karma. You should do those works which can help in the progress of this world. 

   

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन । मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥

In Geeta, it is said that you should do your Karma but should not make a desire for its reward. You have the right to your Karma, but you don't have the right to its award. You may leave the fruit of your deeds but can't run away from your responsibilities, your Karma.

Remember, whenever you do good to someone, you ultimately feel proud and happy when you reach a holy place like a temple/gurudwara, etc. you feel inner peace, when you meet or watch a video of a wise man or monk then some vibes touch your soul, and you feel motivated. All this happens because of Dharma at those places. These places and persons are serving the society with their good deeds; this is their Karma. 

So, always do those works which do not harm anyone and beneficial to society. Never quit from your Karma, and don't wait for a reward. It will be your Dharma.

Thank you, guys

    

POSITIVITY Forever

Welcome, dear readers. This blog will be beneficial for you if you are not feeling happy or positive vibes are not coming directly from your soul, making you happy. Hold on, we will look at different methods to achieve positivity, but before we explore further, let's understand the meaning of positivity. Ya, you all are smart enough to know about it, but I will explain it at any cost, sorry you guys have to tolerate it.😅

POSITIVITY - Hmm, keep in mind that positivity refers to emotion, and no emotion lasts every time. Positivity refers to a feeling which makes us feel good, motivated, confident, enthusiastic, and helps us to get out of our sadness. So, that's why being positive is essential in our life.

Great, now some tricks and practical suggestions for you to be positive:-

1) Be a Believer -Believe in yourself, think that you can do all those things which will help you to achieve success in your life and makes your journey the best one ever.

2) Make GOOD friends - Good friend doesn't mean that he is intelligent or the one who scores good marks or who never abuses. He must be the one who respects your thoughts and dreams and helps you in times of need. Try to get a clear-sighted friend who gives a genuine opinion on every matter, whom you can call your best friend. Talking to him gets you positivity.  

                 

3) Meditation - Many of you guys may think that it is not practical😜, but trust me it is the best way to improve your positive energy and concentration, I have experienced it. You can search for meditation techniques on YouTube.

Bonus TIP - Do in Morning 4-6 a.m. ( I do not follow this tip, I am lazy😴😂)

                        

4) Play Outdoors  -         No need to explain!👍

                                                     

5) Proper Diet - Eat well, always. I said well, it doesn't mean equal to a whole 'well.' So, take a proper diet, no need to boycott any food item as far as you are healthy. It gives you more energy to do work and stay positive. 

                                       

                                                     

Then you can listen to music, watch motivational videos and movies and read books, etc. 

                        Be Positive Be Happy

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